Its been a long time i havnt written a blog...i wasnt really busy..but yaa i forgot my wordpress id n password :P bt i still managed to get it anyhow..when i got..jst one blog was published and other were saved :D i tried to do something of it bt my friend suggested me for blogspot :) so i m here wid a new blog...
FIRST IMPRESSION...many of us really makes first impression the last one for others...bt when it comes you try to make urself so nice that your first impression is so good...one of my frnd wrote in his blog that he met a beggar who was nt actually asking him for money or food n was staring at him while he was eating.. but he realized India is like this way....and the same day eve i went to the market and a small kid may b around 7 r 8 years old came to me and was imitating as if he is a dumb..i stared at him..suddenly he started singing and dancing :O this scene made me remember of two movies...slumdog millionaire n traffic signal...and guess what was the boy singing..."Jai hoooo Jai hooo...." song of slumdog millionaire :) i realized my INDIA...21st century India...
Many a times we feel as if first impression of a person lasts forever...but i never feel this...i have met so many persons in my life having many kinds of impressions :P its never the same...as what Khalil Gibran said in the above lines....do we really need to have a word called impression in our dictionary just to judge them they are best or not by their looks or dressing sense blah blah blah...many of us feel Mahatma Gandhi as a great person by his valuable quotes..like " A customer is the most important visitor on our premises. He is not dependent on us. We are dependent on him. He is not an interruption in our work. He is the purpose of it. He is not a part of it. We are not doing any favour by serving him. He is doing us a favour by giving us an opportunity to do so" in India we can see this posters in government offices and also in private ....but how many of us have realized his most beautiful quote.....SIMPLE LIVING HIGH THINKING.....We call him a great man...what does he used to wear??? charagh din shirts or khadder dhotis..or fab india...
Many of us do this...looking for a brand...like Mr. Vijay Mallaya...who recruits his officers in a different style...guys being selected on their shirt buttons and gals being selected on the basis of jewellery they are wearing...Do this really matters in life??? or should we go for talent?? or should we go for good employees who can work lot with a minimum package they are worth of....Why Indians being so intelligent love to work for foreign companies and earn a lot...and would never like to work for smaller companies in India where they get a good designation but just less package??? Is this what we call brain drain....We are in a developing country...still we say "India mein bohot kuch baaki hai..."
Once i met an old couple in train...they were looking very simple...uncle was wearing a jacket and aunty just a simple saree...but as usual i never go for a sophisticated first impression...we started talking....and then he told me about his qualifications and aunty's qualification...i was impressed coz dey were working in a highly reputable post and were very simple...and told me about their two sons who were iitians...and how they all enjoyed their life...instead of going abroad with lots of show off!!!
Now realize...whr r u?? and what do you contribute to ur life....it is always true.."Human wants are unlimited.." but what are your limitations upto....Maslow's theory!!! or much more than that....
"To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to..." Khalil Gibran.
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